TAKE ONE OF THESE SHORT, SELF0-GUIDED VIDEO COURSES TO SOLVE PARENTING CHALLENGES:
- Kids won’t listen to a thing you say and pushing the limits all the time?
- Constantly squabbling and fighting with each other?
- New sibling arriving soon? Your child hitting/biting?
- Are sleep issues causing strife in your household?
- Having trouble with transitions and short separations?
You can get help, immediately, without even leaving home! I regularly recommend these courses to the parents I work with. Offered through Hand in Hand Parenting*, they are packed with useful, practical information, and explain how Parenting by Connection applies to areas of common difficulty for parents. You will get fresh perspectives and practical tools to solve common parenting challenges, and help get more closeness and fun into your relationship with your children.
COST: For what you get, they are great value for money (most cost approx AU$53 – US$39 – at the moment).
ADD IN PERSON SUPPORT: Using what they learn here, many parents also find it helpful to complement these courses with a one-on-one consultation to help develop and implement a plan tailored to the specific circumstances of their family.
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SETTING LIMITS AND BUILDING CO-OPERATION: Learn valuable new skills for building co-operation and solving problems in your family. Get a step by step process for making limit setting a positive experience and getting more good times in your family life. Learn why children test limits, how to build and repair connection with them so you can solve problems, and how to defuse power struggles and deal your own frustrations and exhaustion. COST: Approx AU$ 53. Learn more and register
TAMING SIBLING RIVALRY: Get fresh perspectives about family dynamics and new ways to creatively respond to difficult moments and chronic difficulties between your children. In the long run, these will dissolve tensions between siblings, reduce your stress levels and build closeness, co-operation, respect and understanding. This is not the typical approach like: “Don’t do that or I’ll send you to your room”. We explain why rewards, punishments and consequences often don’t work that well, and how to focus instead on building your relationship and connection with your children. Children need this connection to be able to function well, learn and get along. Our approach can be challenging to use, but the results over time are deeply rewarding. Learn more and register
HELPING CHILDREN WITH AGGRESSION: Learn concrete, effective tools for stopping your child’s aggressive behaviour and strengthen their connection with you. Understand what drives aggressive behaviour, and learn ways of responding which will build your relationship with your child, and deal with underlying causes. Get a step by step process for proactively dealing with problems before the punch lands, and cleaning up the mess when you get there too late. Learn more and register
SAY GOODBYE TO SEPARATION ANXIETY: Discover the roots of your child’s anxiety, develop confidence in addressing their difficulties around transitions – tantrums, aggression or crying. Learn concrete tools to loosen the hold of anxiety on your child, stop the behavior, and strengthen their relationship with you. Leaving your child for short times shouldn’t be that hard, and this gives you concrete ways to tackle the feelings that come up – building your child’s confidence and your peace of mind when you have to leave. Learn more and register
HELPING CHILDREN SLEEP: Hand in Hand Parenting offers effective and supportive ways to “put sleep issues to bed” and resolve the emotional tensions which make bedtime difficult and wake children at night. Children experience sleep as separation, and to help them, you will need to build and repair a strong sense of connection with you. Children need your help to get through the difficult emotions which wake them at night, and you will need ways to set loving, firm limits to resolve sleep issues. You will get new understandings of your child’s sleep anxieties, and get 5 concrete “parent-tested” steps you can take to achieve a relaxed sleep for everyone. Learn more and register
BUILDING A LISTENING PARTNERSHIP-EASING THE STRESS OF PARENTING: As parents doing the world’s most complex work, we need places where we can work through our parenting challenges, reflect on our experiences, “download” the strong feelings we often have about parenting and about our children and make plans for our family. Listening Partnerships are at the foundation of the Parenting by Connection approach, and are a way that you can build ongoing support for yourself as a parent. This self-guided online course provides a step-by-step guide to the process of beginning and developing a Listening Partnership – the regular exchange of listening time between parents. It covers:
- why things get hard for parents;
- how parents can help one another recover from emotional hurt
- guidance on offloading tension caused by grief, anger, guilt, frustration, fear, exhaustion, and much more.
This course is delivered by online classroom, but in addition you are invited to join an online group of other parents who have taken or are taking the course, in order to share your learnings, and find Listening Partners. This course costs approx $AUD108. Learn more and register
WHAT WILL I GET IF I TAKE ONE OF THESE ONLINE COURSES?
- Access to hours of video material presented by Hand in Hand Parenting founder, Patty Wipfler. These can be watched as many times as you wish, whenever you wish, for several months.
- Each course is divided into three video “classes” covering the key issues, presented in 10-15 minute segments – so you can work through the course in bite size pieces.
- Learn about several practical Listening Tools to practise at home with your children. These will help you build, strengthen and repair your relationship with your child, and tackle difficulties.
- “Listening to Children” e-booklet set and other reading materials.
HOW DO THESE COURSES WORK? You can start anytime. Once you have registered and paid, you will be sent an email inviting you to join the online classroom. Once you have logged in there, you can start immediately. All you need is high-speed internet access.
HOW LONG WILL THE COURSE TAKE TO FINISH? You can expect that it will take you between 3-6 weeks to complete the course, but you have access to the online classroom for several months.
WHO IS THIS FOR: Mothers, fathers and carers of children aged 2-10 (although the Listening Tools we teach will work well with children from birth through to adulthood).
WHAT IS HAND IN HAND PARENTING? Parenting by Connection is an approach which puts your relationship with your children at the centre. We provide practical tools for building closeness, a sense of connection and emotional safety with your children, offering children assistance, guidance and course correction through limit setting, and getting support for yourself. Our consistent experience is that a focus on connection provides the basis for resolving difficulties in family life. You can learn more here.
WHO IS COURSE FACILITATOR? Patty Wipfler is the founder and Program Director of Hand in Hand Parenting. She brings warmth, compassion and the deepest respect for parents and children, as well as a wealth of experience working with parents and children. She cares deeply about parents, and the emotional work that we do.
CAN I TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT MY PARTICULAR PARENTING CHALLENGES, AND APPLYING THIS AT HOME? These online courses provide a wonderful introduction to Parenting by Connection. Sometimes, however, it is great to have someone to ask questions of, and to talk to about what you are learning. Please feel free to contact Madeleine for a free 20 minute consultation. If you need a longer time, you can book a one-on-one consultation here.
* WHO IS HAND IN HAND PARENTING?
Parenting by Connection was developed and is supported by Hand in Hand Parenting, a not-for-profit based in Palo Alto, California, founded in 1989 by Patty Wipfler. Hand in Hand Parenting works world wide with parents, parent leaders and professionals who support parents. You can find out more HERE
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